A long trail of damage. Broken relationships, friendships & problems with co-workers. Has had a bullying complaint made against him. Blames others for his behavior. Controlling, selfish, cruel, aggressive, uses intimidation, manipulator, plays the blame game & victim. Throws tantrums, yells, screams, throws things, kicks, punches objects. Emotionally abusive towards people he ‘loves’, rarely apologies then accuses the victim as causing his outburst. Or frustration or tiredness as other excuses. Needs professional help.
Mood swings from extremely happy, to depressed. More often depressed. Very unpredictable, makes you walk on eggshells including his own children. One which no longer speaks to him. Anything, usually a small issue can set him off to a violent outburst.
Beware if you get involved. Likes petite, redheads, usually co-workers. He will real you in, use you up, throw you away, move onto his next victim. Which he does before he leaves the previous victim, usually a few months beforehand, then breaks up lying there is no-one else. Whilst he’s been with both parties for a period of time. So a cheater too.
If you think he will be different with you, you’re kidding yourself. He has done this twice in last 3 years. His behavior will not change. He cycles, thru relationships, drains people, feeds off their emotions to help his low self esteem issues until there is nothing left, then moves on.