How could such a sweet sincere guy end up on this site? It must be because the person writing it is crazy right?! I’m sure that’s what he will tell you and that he was honest and upfront from the beginning but that’s not the full truth.
Right from the start I should have walked away and I did try as soon as he informed me he was still living with his ex fiance but he assured me he was looking for a place, it took him four months to find one then another month to actually move out and in that time we had been hanging outJ sleeping together but he would disappear for hours at a time usually 5 to 10 pm which is when his ex would go to bed, funny how that works but he told me he was with his mom and she didn’t like cell phones being on. This disappearing act would continue through out the 18 months we dated. It wouldn’t be until the end that I’d find out he was still seeing her too. I had questioned him on this numerous times through out and he would tell me I’m crazy for thinking such things and that’s not what was going on. He was charming and nice so I believed him each time because of how sincere he seemed to be but now I realize it was just him trying to keep me happy so she wouldn’t find out, what kind of nice guy does that to another person he supposedly cared about? His ex was the one who contacted me and asked me about the two of us and he had basically told her I was crazy and making it up so the two of them made me the bad guy, all the whole he still claimed to be a good guy, but I don’t know many good guys who are selfish enough to put someone down they supposedly cared about to save his own a** with a girl he told me not to worry about.
The way he treated me after wasn’t what I deserved after being there for him through his family situation that he used to gain sympathy and use as the reason he couldn’t commit fully to me but still wanted to sleep with me and use me. He did damage that will take years to fix because I believed he was a good guy but no good guy would do what he did, only an insecure liar would do those things. Don’t fall for the nice guy he wants you to believe he is because it left me in a dark place. He’s not a good guy he used me abs tossed me out like yesterday’S trash when he went back to his ex. He’s a liar.